The Importance of Being an Inclusive Provider
I became a nurse practitioner during a meaningful season of life. At the time, my daughter was a senior in high school and had recently come out as LGBTQ+. As I stepped into this new role, she shared something that has stayed with me ever since: “Mom, promise me you’ll be an inclusive provider.”
Living and practicing in Utah, where acceptance can sometimes feel complicated for LGBTQ+ individuals, her words carried even greater weight. She wanted to know that the people who came to me for care would feel safe, respected, and seen—regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation.
Mental health challenges affect people from all walks of life, but members of the LGBTQ+ community often face additional stressors. Fear of rejection, discrimination, isolation, and lack of understanding can contribute to higher rates of anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns. For many, simply finding a healthcare provider who listens without judgment can make a tremendous difference.
As healthcare providers, we have an opportunity and a responsibility to create spaces where everyone feels welcome.
Inclusive care is not about having all the answers; it’s about approaching each person with compassion, respect, and a willingness to learn. It means using the names and pronouns patients prefer, listening to their experiences, and recognizing the unique challenges they may face.
Over the years, I have been grateful to care for people from many different backgrounds. Some patients arrive feeling uncertain about whether they will be accepted. My goal is always to make sure they leave knowing they are valued and cared for as individuals.
My daughter’s request helped shape the provider I wanted to become.
She reminded me that healthcare is about more than treating symptoms, it’s about building trust and helping people feel safe enough to seek the care they deserve.
Mental health care should be accessible, affirming, and compassionate for everyone. No matter who you are, you deserve to be heard, respected, and supported on your journey toward wellness.
That belief continues to guide me every day.
